Socially withdrawn people?
What an odd story on Mainichi today.Â
Average age of socially withdrawn people passes 30 for first time
The average age of people who isolate themselves from society has climbed past 30 for the first time, according to a survey on a group supporting family members of socially withdrawn people.
The finding was made in a survey that experts conducted on members of Zenkoku Hikikomori KHJ Oya no Kai. While there is a base of young people who shut themselves off from society, the latest survey highlights the definite increase in people in their 30s and 40s who have kept themselves isolated and have not managed to make a return to society.
The survey found that the average age of people isolated from society was 30.12. By gender, the average age for males was 30.35 and the corresponding figure for females was 28.87. The youngest person withdrawn from society was aged 13, and the oldest was aged 52. The average amount of time they spent withdrawn from society was 8.95 years, and the longest was 25 years.
The poll has been conducted every year since 2002. In that year, the average age of people who isolated themselves from society was 26.6, and in 2006 it was 29.6, showing that the age is increasing. The average age of parents of people who shut themselves off from society, meanwhile, was 63.23 years for fathers and 58.28 years for mothers.
When respondents were asked, from the viewpoint of family members, what support socially withdrawn people wanted, “financial support” was the most common answer, accounting for more than 50 percent of responses and surpassing the answers “counseling” and “diagnosis from a doctor.”
In a section that allowed people to freely state their opinions, one of the respondents wrote, “I want a system in place so that I can die in peace, “and another said, “I want a social security system to be founded, showing that parents worried what would happen when they were gone.
The representative of Zenkoku Hikikomori KHJ Oya no Kai, Masahisa Okuyama, said that a safety net would provide security for people.
“Concerns by socially withdrawn people and their parents are leading to family breakups, and we’re starting to see terrible situations in which people kill their parents, carry out murder-suicides or take their own lives. If there was some kind of safety net, that would give people a sense of security.”
The survey was conducted by a team including University of Tokushima Associate Prof. Motohiro Sakai between November 2007 and January 2008. Members of Zenkoku Hikikomori KHJ Oya no Kai were asked to fill in questionnaires, and officials analyzed the responses from 331 people.
I did come across my share of weirdos in Japan and the good vs bad reasons for them to be socially isolated probably even themselves out. The first theory that popped into my head was the proliferation of the internet and the ability to hide behind a false e-personality. I’m pretty sure the increasing ways in which one can interact in their virtual world and with their “friends” whom they’ve never met face to face has something to do with the inability for people to interact with humanoids in the real world.  Society on a whole is moving in a direction of antisocialism whether we are aware of it or not. The inventions that are making our lives more convenient are perhaps somewhat to blame for the increased inability (of some) to function in our changing society.
text messaging vs calling on the phone
emailing vs writing a letter by hand
calling someone by phone vs talking in person
talking to someone vs punching them in the face
but I digress. . .
Don’t you hate theories that pop into your head after reading a simple news article? As comedian Chris Rock said, “What ever happened to just being crazy?” I agree. “Socially withdrawn”? Nah, that person is just crazy!

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